beLoved

You need to realize that being liberated from a jungle mix of undignified words that has being set to tear you down, to cause you worry, to make a puncture on your self esteem is not a straight forward success, the path is actually convoluted and narrow.But, having an intuition or foreknowledge of what's to come makes you more prepared. However, some of us are "fortunate" enough to have experienced some little samplings of what to come, we offcourse, at that time don't think we know what's really happening or what the deal is, but we know that before they start talking there must or would have been some enviable progress you've embarked on or about too.Have you ever wondered why some people are just so stubborn about their ideas, dreams or the way they live there lives, that's how they react to it.Remember this, "No matter how carefree a person is about what people say,that doesn't mean that they don't think about what's being said...

There are undeniable flaws formed as a result of our obnoxious nature of being desperately curious,wanting to belong,to be accepted by our peer group and even the society and the environment.This flaws was not with us from birth but it was one of the things we developed when we started growing and when we became of age it became an habit, in this case a bad one; somepeople dignify it by calling it a weakness, we are opinionated we can call it whatsoever we like. When I listen to interviews ,read stories of various famous, successful celebraties,On Air Personalities,Pastors,CEOs they reveal some particular habit they have and confess,how it almost ruined their lives, businesses and relationship with people.I begin to wonder, 'I'm not the only after all'.This is true, You ain't.So, breathe! Most people blame their weaknesses on trivia and important things, giving them the kerf to make excuses.However excuses do not help,it makes us less congruous and assertive.If so...

We now live in a world where premarital sex isn't an issue at least 'it's not your body' they say but that's for another day,taking drugs has become abusive, 'living your life' is no more the deal but trampling on other people's right and gain is an ambit beginning to selfish greatness and getting really connected to diverse wealth and little lose of which they know, creating an atmosphere prone to fraudulent acts and crime.The young minds they say when idle becomes the devil workshop, it ain't the young now but the old too. Our generation thrives from a legacy left behind by some so called Emeritus Elite, who claims and believe in their own words that, 'the best is yet to come'. Oh! how sad this revelation influence a negative reproach that, the worst is yet to come.Taking all kinds of alcoholic beverages and drinks, drugs with unknown origin prescribed by quack roadside doctors and retail sellers from various gang and bandit marketer...

Struggling with who you are and what you want to become, is a diverstating blow we receive each time we get in contact with that thinking. It's not something we often want to think about, it just happens. Somepeople say know your limits, know your worth,think big, act revolutionary, be tenacious,think different, dare your self.Yes! These are all inspiringly motivational,they are like to a deer panting for water, they are like the rain that falls on the soil,they are like the sea breeze so soothing you could fall asleep.They are pleasing, but the real truth is we just want to hear them over and over again, it's what we've always known and seen,some we felt.Alas! It is what we subconsciously,always want to hear.Like falling down and applying a balm to a wound and taking a scoop of ice cream to calm our nerve as if we are little babies. Knowing what you are goes a long way to building your self esteem, believing in your self, and standing strong when tough times arrive, ...