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      On that day, when Laide will look into her husband's eyes in front of the congregation in holy matrimony declaring her vows and saying "I do". She will be sure she loves him with her soul.       Our country is falling apart because of the deterioration of the home, the home is falling apart because of the deterioration of the marriage while marriages are deteriorating because husbands and wives do not treat each other properly.       Before you ever love anybody physically or romantically, you ought to be in love with his or her soul.Between a husband and wife, physical love should not function alone but should get permission from the soul.Anyone who has no love in his or her soul have no right to love physically.       Dating someone merely because they are physically attractive is wordly.Somepeople call it "falling in love" but I do agree with those who call it "jumping in love" 😁😁. So what is Soul Lov...

   Why do we get married? Apart from the African culture,norms and Religious beliefs, marriage is accepted as the most fufilling phase everyone needs to or must experience so that a guy could be called a man (this signifies a sense of responsibility) and the lady a woman hence, mother (and if you're not a mother, you ain't yet a woman).     Some people get married because of their age or let's say childbearing age limit, some because they want their own family, some because they want to feel among, some because of relatives or church elders matchmaking, some because they love one another and can't live without one another and so on (The latter reason is mentioned a lot.).These reasons seems 'reasonable' but I think there should be a more tenable reason.     The reality check is what happens after the few years spent together like 5-25 years together. You know, when you see really old couples 👴👵 walking together, holding one another as if there lives ...

Is it time? Is it time to dwell in the past And forget the future Is it time for me To dwell in this cieled house And lay a claim and host Is it time for me To grieve alone And dwell in solitude Is it time for me To search for help from the Hill And embrace this crooked ways Is it time for me To crave for a soul freedom To be free from this hell hold Is it time?